Great food makes for a lighthearted conversation about one thing you both have in common — the meal you’re sharing.
Plus, there isn’t room for uncomfortable silences when you dine as a duo because food creates a great distraction.
But to keep your romantic energy in balance, you will want to follow some basic rules. Relationships that start out with this dynamic never really recover, and as months and years pass, you may find yourself in a sexless "just friends"/ roommate arrangement.
If you are crushing on a shy guy, I definitely recommend that you read The Rules, by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider.
Remember, though, that just because someone is shy at first doesn’t mean she’s not an undercover chatterbox.For a man, I imagine this can be quite frustrating.Getting a woman to come out of her shell and interact with you can be very difficult, especially if she is naturally timid or introverted.Many women who initially seem shy will talk your head off once they feel comfortable around you. If you happen to be falling for a woman who is a little on the shy side, take note of these profound insights and apply them accordingly.Treat her with respect and prove you are trustworthy, honest and sincere. If you struggle with shyness, these will be helpful for you as well.