One father made a grave error when he wrote: 'Hey sexy!
I think you just ruined the greatest surprise of my life.'You can only hope that Maya felt able to accept the proposal after the nasty shock of having her mother ruin her surprise.
You’ll want to appear as if you’re high status and busy as well and take your time in replying to her, too. You don’t want to appear too available as this makes you look needy. You’ve probably done this before already, thinking that if you didn’t reply to her fast enough, she might lose attraction for you or she might be upset with you because you take too long and that might ruin your chances with her. Come on, admit it, you’ve done this before; everyone has. It’s not a rule that should be followed to a tee, but it should be loosely followed, and if done, should put you into an attraction-building position.
I say loosely followed here because you don’t want to always text her eleven minutes after she texts you if she usually takes about ten minutes to text you. If she is in a pattern of texting you every ten minutes or so, and you have seven texts between you, take 15 minutes, 20 minutes, 8 minutes, 10 minutes, 30 minutes, 5 minutes, 13 minutes. They’re more of the natural timing texts between friends would be.
At the same time, though, you’re making a bit of a joke about her not being around, so it’s a good way to ask something semi-seriously while at the same time coming across as playful. Using “lol” is a similar thing I like to do and recommend.
It’s basically the same idea as the smiley face and can also be used to lighten the mood.
Take that “lol” out of the sentence, and it really just comes across as strange.
Timing is the space in between texts that you and she take to reply back to each other’s messages.
We become obsessed with checking our phones every couple of minutes, and we don’t take control of our lives.
Instead, we let our cell phones control how we live!
Most high-status or quality girls have a lot going on in their lives; therefore, they tend to be busy a lot of the time and tend to take longer to reply back to your texts. If she takes, say, half an hour to reply back to your initial text, and you reply within a minute or two of her response, you come off as very needy.
(It’s either this, or they just want to appear busy and will take their time in replying.) This is okay. (You also come off as a bit creepy, like you were just staring at your phone like some kind of Fatal Attraction-type character, just waiting for her to answer you, and when she did, you answered her right away.) I’m telling you right now that, if you do anything resembling this, you will totally creep the woman out. Now I take my time in responding to a woman, and by doing so, I create intrigue and interest as well as more attraction. A simple rule is to take as long (if not longer) to reply to her texts as she takes to reply to yours.